Elsa Maxwell by Hoyningen Huenewhat MAKES or BREAKS a PARTY?
(all written by Elsa LA Maxwell except where italicized)
a party is like a SOUFFLE the ingredients...must be weighed and measured by the hand of an artist...taken out of the oven at exactly the psychological moment- and served HOT.
the JOY of the hostess in her own party must be the first element encountered by the guest. NEVER show the slightest anxiety about the ulitmate success of your own PARTY.
one should never HAVE to ask people to a party just because they are on one's LIST. No, the gravest menace to a good party is the dangerous emotional kindness of most hostesses in the extension of their invitations.
RUTHLESSNESS is the first attribute towards the achievement of a PERFECT party. WEALTH does not play a large role toward the giving of a good party. SNOBS are incapable of gaiety, so CUT THEM OFF RUTHLESSLY.
always endeavor to incur the opposition of one or two of the so-called "social- powers- that-be." guests will take sides, feelings will run high, excitement will ensue.
a great MISTAKE is letting guests do as they want. No guests want to do what they want- everything must be done for them at a successful party.
guests should be selected for their HUMAN attributes. a Maxwell fantasy includes preparing a sumptuous dinner for all well known bores... turn on the deadly laughing gas, and they would all die painlessly, laughing gaily for the first time in their lives.
a good party should occur in one room only, and that room should always be too small for the number invited.
WHAT makes or BREAKS a party? a NEW IDEA, plus a sense of HUMOR, makes a party- AND THE BORES BREAK IT.
the JOY of the hostess in her own party must be the first element encountered by the guest. NEVER show the slightest anxiety about the ulitmate success of your own PARTY.
one should never HAVE to ask people to a party just because they are on one's LIST. No, the gravest menace to a good party is the dangerous emotional kindness of most hostesses in the extension of their invitations.
RUTHLESSNESS is the first attribute towards the achievement of a PERFECT party. WEALTH does not play a large role toward the giving of a good party. SNOBS are incapable of gaiety, so CUT THEM OFF RUTHLESSLY.
always endeavor to incur the opposition of one or two of the so-called "social- powers- that-be." guests will take sides, feelings will run high, excitement will ensue.
a great MISTAKE is letting guests do as they want. No guests want to do what they want- everything must be done for them at a successful party.
guests should be selected for their HUMAN attributes. a Maxwell fantasy includes preparing a sumptuous dinner for all well known bores... turn on the deadly laughing gas, and they would all die painlessly, laughing gaily for the first time in their lives.
a good party should occur in one room only, and that room should always be too small for the number invited.
WHAT makes or BREAKS a party? a NEW IDEA, plus a sense of HUMOR, makes a party- AND THE BORES BREAK IT.
